Nigerian comedienne Tomama has shared her thoughts on the growing trend of women becoming “baby mamas” without being married. In a recent video, Tomama expressed her strong stance against having a child out of wedlock, stating that she would never allow herself to be in such a situation.
Tomama emphasized that having a child is a serious responsibility and not something to be taken lightly. She insisted that any man who wants to have a child with her must first marry her properly.
“Una think say pikin na hamper…. if you no go marry me proper, you no go see pikin,” Tomama said, which translates to “You think having a child is like buying a hamper… if you don’t marry me properly, you won’t have a child.”
Tomama’s statement sparked a range of reactions from her followers, with many expressing support for her views. Some comments included:
onlyone_say_rah said: “Likeeee they like normalizing yamayama things”
chi_maramma wrote: “Even the marriage is not a GUARANTEE….. we ask for God’s grace🥹”
amyxious_bubz commented: “Let ur kids be blessed u gave them a great father.. protect ur womb by all means. Not ever man deserves to be a father ooooo”
thefoodnetworknig2 remarked: “If it’s means padlocking your towtow, baby girl do am! You deserve more….”