I Have been dating 2 men for years and now they both proposed to me and I don’t know what to do because they are good to me
A woman sought advice on social media regarding her complex dating situation. She revealed that she’s been dating two men—one for two years and another for a little over a year. Recently, her boyfriend of two years proposed to her. Two weeks later, her other boyfriend also proposed, gifting her a brand-new car.
She expressed her confusion, not wanting to lose either man since both have treated her well. She wrote:
“I have been dating two men simultaneously. One relationship has lasted for two years, while the other has been for a little over a year.
I managed to balance both relationships despite a few close calls. However, things have become complicated recently. My boyfriend of two years proposed marriage, and then two weeks later, my other boyfriend proposed with a brand-new car.
Now, I’m torn because both are good men. The first boyfriend helped me secure a well-paid job, and the second provides the care and attention I need. Initially, I started seeing the second man just for fun and a change of pace, but now I have genuine feelings and don’t know what to do.”